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marthad

Decision Name:

Should I try a long distance relationship?

Date:

October 15th - 2009

Description:

Simon says:

to move to a friendship based relationship

Respectful<br />Self-Directed<br />Private<br />Stoic<br />Solitary<br />Thoughtful<br />Dependable<br />Cooperative<br />Solicitous<br />Conventional<br />
Respectful
Self-Directed
Private
Stoic
Solitary
Thoughtful
Dependable
Cooperative
Solicitous
Conventional

Primary Personality

Imaginative<br />Creative<br />Crafter<br />Performer<br />Composer<br />Independent<br />Inventive<br />Intuitive<br />Inspired<br />Productive<br />
Imaginative
Creative
Crafter
Performer
Composer
Independent
Inventive
Intuitive
Inspired
Productive

Secondary Personality

Intuitive

Decision style:

Intuitive

Importance

Very Important

Selected Tools

My Scores

My Points of View

My Alternatives

1
to drop the relationship altogether
2
to move to a friendship based relationship
3
Don't try a long distance relationship, and break up
4
Try a long distance relationship
5
Try an open relationship

My Factors

1
Commitment
2
Happiness
3
Children
4
Compatibility
5
forty years of knowing each other
6
seniors
7
Companionship
8
his affair
9
Family
10
Fun
11
no romantic love
12
stated desire to live with me in three years
13
Avoiding stress
14
Budget
15
Personality

Overall Results

to move to a friendship based relationship scored 74.00% higher than the next best option Try a long distance relationship

How Simon calculates the result
1

to move to a friendship based relationship

82.71
2

Try a long distance relationship

47.50
3

to drop the relationship altogether

35.83
4

Try an open relationship

35.62
5

Don't try a long distance relationship, and break up

31.25

Results by tool for top 3 alternatives

# Selected Tools to move to a friendship based relationship Try a long distance relationship to drop the relationship altogether
1
 My Scores
54.58
47.50
26.46
2
 My Points of View
28.13
0.00
9.38
Simon Points 82.71 47.50 35.83

Simonites' Comments (3)

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Ramiro

2009-09-17

In a LDR, usually there are more than 2 involved. Take this into account.

John Marston

2009-09-17

Long distance relationships never work for long. become friends and move on.

Clairemrs

2009-09-16

Looks like you considered a variety of important factors.
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